By Will Falk
Trigger warning: This piece contains graphic descriptions of sexual and colonial violence.
Hatred is one of the most misunderstood processes at work in the world today. Cops are killing young people of color while simultaneously maintaining they’re not racists and do not hate the people they’re killing. A growing number of men watch pornography claiming they do not hate women. Millions of tourists visit Hawai’i annually – despite pleas from native Hawaiians to stop – and feel they are so far from hating Hawai’i, it’s their favorite place to visit.
While the real, physical world is burning at an ever faster pace, I could care less what those responsible feel in their hearts while they destroy. Maybe it’s true that a cop holds no hatred in his heart as he releases a flurry of bullets into another unarmed black person’s body. Maybe it’s true that a man feels no contempt as he orgasms to images of women being beaten in simulated rape scenes. Despite boarding giant fossil-fuel burning jets to see Hawai’i, despite supporting an invasive government responsible for genocide in order to keep Hawai’i’s borders open, despite paying money to industries that desecrate Hawaiian ancestors, maybe tourists to Hawai’i really do think they love the land they’re helping to destroy.
Then, again, maybe individual members of the dominant culture are more like the Nazi Eichmann who claimed no personal hatred for the Jews he was responsible for loading on cattle cars before they were exterminated in gas chambers.
Make no mistake, the dominant culture hates Hawai’i. If it didn’t, why is it killing species at a faster rate in Hawai’i than anywhere else in the world? If it didn’t, why is it dropping bombs on her islands? If it didn’t, why does it maintain an illegal occupation over the objections of her people?
What counts isn’t how a person feels, it’s what a person does. Settlers may feel an affinity for Hawaii, but when Hawaii is under attack as it has been for a century and a half, what counts is the material reality actions produce. When the planet’s life support systems are under attack, when, in other words, life itself is threatened to within inches of existence, material consequences are much more important than an emotional state.
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In this Protecting Mauna Kea series, I want to encourage tangible support for native Hawaiian sovereignty in settler communities. In order to do that, I think it is necessary to understand the hatred expressed towards Hawai’i by the dominant American culture.
Before arriving in Hawai’i, I read and heard from several native Hawaiian scholars about the pornification of Hawaiian culture. I’ve learned right away how true this is. Just like men are conditioned to overlook hatred of women early in their lives through pornography’s propaganda, settlers are conditioned to hate Hawai’i through the pornification of Hawaiian culture.
I flew Hawaiian Airlines to Hawai’i, for example, and the complimentary in-flight snack included a candy called “Aloha-macs.” This product, by a company called “Hawaiian Host,” is self-labelled as “creamy milk chocolate covered macadamias – the original gift of aloha.” Hawaiian Host and the dominant culture seek to transform an ancient indigenous wisdom – aloha – into a candy, sugary trash, something to consume.
As soon as we boarded the plane, I noticed the video monitors displaying clips of beautiful, dancing Hawaiian women. I thought immediately of Haunani-Kay Trask’s brilliant essay “‘Lovely Hula Hands’: Corporate Tourism and the Prostitution of Hawaiian Culture” where she explains how tourism converts cultural attributes into pure profit.
Trask writes, “…a woman must be transformed to look like a prostitute – that is someone who is complicitous in her own commodification. Thus hula dancers wear clownlike makeup, don costumes from a mix of Polynesian cultures, and behave in a manner that is smutty and salacious rather than powerfully erotic. The distance between the smutty and the erotic is precisely the difference between Western culture and Hawaiian culture.”
Of course, before the pornification of Hawaiian culture the hula dance was a sacred expression. Again, Trask is enlightening, “In the hotel version of the hula, the sacredness of the dance has completely evaporated, while the athleticism and sexual expression have been packaged like ornaments. The purpose is entertainment for profit rather than a joyful and truly Hawaiian celebration of human and divine nature. The point, of course, is that everything in Hawai’i can be yours, that is, you the tourists’, the Non-Natives’, the visitors’.”
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Pornography is an expression of hatred. A simple search of any popular porn website shows women being labelled “bitch,” “slut,” “cunt,” and “pussy.” Videos and images are arranged into categories like “blonde,” “brunette,” “Asian” on one end all the way down to “teens” “gang bangs” and “fisting” on the other end. “Fisting” involves inserting a fist or fists into vaginas and anal cavities. The production of pornography destroys the bodies of women, poisons truly mutual sexuality, and adds to a toxic masculinity that is killing the planet.
I know that many men will be angry with me for trashing their favorite pastime. I know, too, that many tourists will be angry with me for trashing their favorite fantasy. The truth is porn is killing our (men’s) sexuality and the tourist industry is killing the possibility that visitors will ever have a mutual relationship – free from oppression and subordination – with Hawaiians. Worse than this, however, pornography and the pornification of Hawaiian culture normalizes hatred and contributes to a violation imperative that is destroying Hawai’i along with indigenous lands around the world.
There are those who argue that porn is empowering for women, just like there are those who argue the tourism industry is empowering for Hawaiians. I do not believe this is true. This logic is the same logic that placed the phrase “Work will make you free” to greet prisoners over the gate at Auschwitz. No one – besides capitalists and coal mine owners – argues that coal mining is empowering to the miners. No one – besides capitalists and factory owners – argues that sweat shops empower sweat shop workers.
Proponents of porn and the tourism industry will say, “If porn and tourism are so bad, why do so many work in these industries?” But, when the war against women rages on, when native Hawaiians are still systematically dispossessed of their own homeland, survival often demands they take whatever work they can find. I can hold this position and hold no contempt for individuals working in the porn or tourist industry. I’m not interested in blaming individuals, but identifying root processes at work, so we can better work for the liberation of all.
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I remember the first time I was shown pornography. I was ten. An older, male distant family member was flipping through the channels and stopped on an adult film. It was the first time I saw a naked adult female body – or, I guess I should say, mostly naked body. I remember clearly that she was dressed in a strange belt-like garment that wrapped around her breasts and opened over her vagina. Looking back, I understand the garment was clearly designed to highlight the only body parts valued in pornography.
My relative looked over and said, “Don’t tell your parents about this,” and continued watching.
The next time I was shown pornography was only a year or so later. I was at a family friend’s house and this time the person showing me porn was a boy only a few years older than me. Where in the first instance, all my ten-year-old eyes had seen was a highly sexualized representation of a woman’s body, in the second instance I saw the entire act of penetration. This was the first time I had ever seen or imagined sexual intercourse.
Speaking of hatred, I hate that my first experience with sexual intercourse of any kind was through a camera lens, showing a woman who couldn’t possibly have consented to my personal viewing of her, in a voyeuristic experience mediated by a patriarchal perspective. Even now, 17 years later, I remember the way the actor’s bodies were arranged. The woman was pushed over the armrest of a couch, splayed out, open for display while the man withheld every part of his body for contact except for his penis which was thrust forward. There was no love, no passion in the physical contact. The man never reached to embrace his partner. The two never kissed, never caressed each other, never even looked at each other.
The camera lens zoomed in to feature penetration. This, of course, was the whole point – penetration, invasion, domination. Or, to recycle Trask’s line and to apply it to porn, everything in a woman could be mine, a viewer’s, a man’s.
In those moments, my sexuality was poisoned. In each case, older males I knew and respected, showed me pornography. The question,”What does it mean to be a man?” was being answered with porn scenes. In sexual education classes in junior high school, these were the only references I had. In fact, pornography was shown to me a full ten years before I first had sex. Fantasy was imprinted in my mind well before reality ever had a chance.
This is happening to Hawai’i, too. Americans are bombarded with propaganda encouraging an entitlement to Hawai’i. Postcards with picturesque Hawaiian beaches are on refrigerators around the country while Americans fail to remember the atrocities committed to cripple Hawaiian resistance. Movies are made about Pearl Harbor glorifying the doomed bravery of white sailors while Americans forget the native Hawaiian dead who never consented to an American naval presence in the first place. Resorts are filled with American tourists while these tourists fail to consider the Hawaiian homeless those resorts created.
And now, in the latest effort to humiliate Hawaiian culture, corporations want to build a massive telescope on Mauna Kea. The connections to pornography are too clear to be overlooked. Mauna Kea – the most sacred place in Hawaii – is being penetrated, invaded, desecrated by the Thirty Meter Telescope project. The only way for proponents of the TMT to complete this project over the resistance in Hawai’i is is to believe in the propaganda spread through the pornification of Hawai’i. To invade Mauna Kea is to demonstrate the belief that everything in Hawai’i is theirs, the scientists, the Non-Natives, the invaders.
The TMT is an expression of a hateful fantasy. They want to build a means to watch other planets far, far away while this planet is burning. They want to fantasize about homes light years away, when the home we love is being destroyed.
Of course, that’s really the point, isn’t it? They don’t love their home. They hate it. That’s why they want to build this telescope.
Overall I disagree with your context and discussion about Hawaii but your writing is a very valuable viewpoint..however your writing on the harm pornography does is spot on. I consider it abusive to show young boys porn at an early age. I also consider your depression and wonder if there was more to it than just showing you porn? I am glad you are tackling this subject with aggressive words and thoughts! You have this overall concept right: respect must be expected and given. Sadly economics force women into this field where the money is good and the emotional commitment is almost zero. I still respect human beings who find themselves in this work tho.
I particularly liked this section: “Pornography is an expression of hatred. A simple search of any popular porn website shows women being labelled “bitch,” “slut,” “cunt,” and “pussy.” Videos and images are arranged into categories like “blonde,” “brunette,” “Asian” on one end all the way down to “teens” “gang bangs” and “fisting” on the other end. “Fisting” involves inserting a fist or fists into vaginas and anal cavities. The production of pornography destroys the bodies of women, poisons truly mutual sexuality, and adds to a toxic masculinity that is killing the planet.”
Thank you for your thoughts, as always, Mandy.
I’m not sure how to answer this: “I also consider your depression and wonder if there was more to it than just showing you porn?” In the article, I don’t mention depression and I’m not trying to connect my own version of despair with experiences seeing porn. Images of hatred – like porn – I think do contribute to the despair so many of us feel, but I wasn’t trying to making that connection here.
Some may claim, I take too harsh a view of the world due to chemical imbalances in my brain, but I thin despair is the natural reaction to a desperate situation. The fact that 1 in 4 American women will be raped in her lifetime and another 1 in 4 will fend off rape attempts tell me there is a war on women. This is a depressing realization. I believe pornography is a form of patriarchal propaganda in the war on women and it’s existence, therefore, makes me very sad. More than anything, though, I want the war on women to end.
There is no shortage of women who view porn either. Not that it validates or makes it ok, but its not just men.
As to Hawaii, I really think you are stretching it to say that most visitors or non Hawaiian residents (as in Haole) “hate” Hawaii. They may not have a full understanding of its history, European settlement and everything that led to U.S. statehood, but hate? Well some understand it and some don’t.
As I mentioned in your previous article, I actually attended a speaking engagement of Dr. Trask at UCSD and that was shortly after reading “From a Native Daughter”. Although I’ve always had at least some understanding of Hawaii’s history and the U.S.’s oppression of it, I certainly learned a lot more from both reading Dr. Trask’s work and listening to her speak. Personally I am neutral. I have known a fair # of Hawaiians in my lifetime and for the most part they do not seem to agree with her. Yes they share her bitterness in many regards but they don’t want to see Hawaii become a sovereign country and want it to remain a U.S. State and don’t want to eliminate the tourism industry there, despite all the problems that it causes them. Not that the few that I’ve had this conversation with gives an accurate picture of how most Hawaiians feel, but I venture to guess that they are pretty divided and even those who share and support her views only do so to an extent. Again just my own specuation.
Very powerful article… That said, aren’t you guilty of doing the very same thing to California? Being from the very resource rich state of Wisconsin, you moved to resource strapped California and added to the overpopulation problem that they face. This you appear slightly hypocritical. If the tourism industry is killing any natural resource, maybe number limits should be put in place. Maybe like Australia, places like Hawaii and California should institute parameters under which you can move there, such as not displacing a current resistants job opportunity or using up natural resources.
Like I said, well written thought provoking article written in a bit of hypocrisy.
Peace!
I am certainly open to the criticism that I’m a hypocrite, Derek. As a settler, there’s really nowhere in North America I can live without being a hypocrite because this entire continent (and Hawai’i) is stolen native land.
So, shouldn’t I go back to Ireland or Germany? I think this would be a tremendous cop-out (not to mention a displacement of people there) because I understand the threats facing the natural world more clearly here. I can be more effective here. It may save me from being a hypocrite, but it wouldn’t help in tangible ways.
Many indigenous people, however, have explained to me that they’re not as concerned with white guilt or personal complicity in this colonial system as they are concerned with settlers acting in tangible support to dismantle the forces colonizing them.
Following this, I am not concerned with our individual, personal purity. In 100 years, our children are not going to ask if we lived in the most pure way possible free from hypocrisy, they are going to ask if they have clean water to drink and a healthy land base to live on.
How does this apply to tourism in Hawai’i? Well, first I think settlers should ask permission before coming here. And in doing so, they should be willing to work to protect Hawai’i. The same should be said across the United States. I don’t speak for indigenous people, but it seems to me like peacing out to go back to Europe would be turning our backs on problems settlers are largely responsible for.
So in agreement with this stance, Will!
Sorry for the typos, written on my phone… Meant to say “thus” instead of “this” and “residents” instead of “resistants”…
Thank you so much for writing this, Will Falk. This is one of the best articles I have read about this, and the best article I have read in a long time.
Additionally, I appreciate your speaking to your experience around pornography as first sexual exposure, as my experience (and many of ours, no doubt, and we didn’t have the worst of it) was similar.
The first time I saw “sex” was in class..I think maybe fifth grade..or so..watching a historical fiction movie in class, which showed a gang rape of a woman with the invasion of a castle. How horrible that that was my first experience of explicit sexuality..not to mention all the images we are always surrounded by, and the ways we are treated.
My next experience was in junior high school, while my parents were out. My father had left instructions to tape a certain movie on tv..which turned out to involve pornography..monster disguised as woman seducing men..
I applaud your apt and articulate calling out of rape culture, colonial culture. If we are not a part of the solution, we are a part of the problem. Few of us have that amount of awareness and humility. But enough of us do, and our awareness and right action are growing.
Mahalo for being a part of the rectifying, for adding your voice to those that need to be heard. Aloha
Thank you very much for your comments, Adrienne. It’s very encouraging for me to read thoughts like yours. I am sorry that you were confronted with those experiences of pornography at such a young age, too. I think rape culture and colonization are rooted in the same destructive logic. Both of them must be stopped.
Thank you, Will~~
Just seeing your response, after posting a clarification to my comment *)
Yes, I am in full agreement, they come from the same place.
I heard from someone (in comments under this article shared on Facebook) that you have written other articles related, would like to read them.
Thank you
My other articles can be found here, Adrienne:
http://sandiegofreepress.org/author/will-falk/
And I totally understand what you mean about reading better articles by Kanaka Maoli! I’ve learned so much from thinkers like Haunani-Kay Trask, documentary film makers like Keala Kelly, and historians like Dr. Keanu Sai.
I’ve been asked to write to a specifically haole audience. Part of that is because the truth is I’ll never be able to understand occupation and colonization like members of oppressed classes.
Thank you~~~~
and thanks for names of others whose writing I can check out~~~
yes, to who you are writing to~~very important! *)
I’ve also enjoyed reading your responses to others’ comments here..
I feel like how I felt years ago reading a novel by Leonard Cohen..like someone is expressing extremely well what I find in my own head and heart..and it doesn’t happen very often. To look into…
(to explain seeming contradiction: “one of the best articles about this” yet “best article I have read in a long time”:
I haven’t read what I feel to be such an intelligent and important and awesome article in a long time~~
and yet I can’t quite say it’s the best article I have read on the protests/protections of Mauna a Wakea, as I have learned so much from articles written by Kanaka Maoli (Hawaiians) on all of this..the history and perspectives~~~
Again, Thank You
I feel somewhat shocked by the other responses to this article..Didn’t you read it? Reading comprehension? *)
And where’s the Aloha, in responses? Oh yeah, you’re from a colonial culture. :P Sorry~~~~No speak with love, no need speak.
Mahalo nui loa Will Falk.