By Bob Dorn
The other day, while I was cruising the pants section of one of my off-fashionable thrift shops, something within me caused me to notice one of those inevitable and pointless engagements between two putative human beings.
“Hi, howsa goin’. ” The cashier was greeting a guy about her age, unsmilingly.
“Hi, howsit goin’, he said, riffing a bit on the theme, also without affect.
Neither one of them changed their expressions and nothing more was said. It was clear they were goin’ nowhere, at least not with each other.
Now, if he’d have said, “Good,” he might have opened up their meeting for her to take another step, like, say, “Sure is a nice day out there.” But I suspect he wasn’t going to go there; how it was goin’ for him was none of her business, really. Nor did he have any real interest in hearing how it was goin’ for her, even if he did re-launch that question, “Hi, howsit goin’.” Those were two calculated dead-ends. A simple nod might have been more friendly. [Read more…]











